In desperate need of any kind of help, please.

Granted by Heroes: 3cats2luv
I am here today with a very heavy heart, and lots of stress. It is so hard for me to do this, but I feel at this point, I don't have a choice. First of all I would like to explain some of what has happened to me in the past couple months. My mom is sick, as some of you know. Her boyfriend left state leaving her with massive bills and back rent. We decided that my family would move in with her to help. I made the bad choice of not paying my rent to catch hers up. It took almost two whole paychecks. I told my landlord we were moving, and worked out a payment arrangement on rent due. Then, bam, her boyfriend shows back up. He is not a nice person, and I absolutely refuse to live with him, or put my children into a situation like that...he also stated that we weren't living there if he was there. Not only am I hurt that my mom would be okay with this, but now I also owe tons of rent, and am behind on my other bills also. She doesn't seem to care. She is on a fixed income, so I know I will not get the $1550 I paid for her back. I know that was long and I am sorry, but it is what has brought me to this wish. I am not going to wish for the rent I owe, or for money to pay my past due bills and shut offs I am getting daily. I am wishing for some of the items my kids are in desperate need of. It's getting cold here, fast. Neither have a jacket to wear in the morning. They need socks and underwear, and about a million other things, but these are the most pressing things that they just can't go without. Also today is my sons 10th Birthday. He was supposed to go with his dad for Birthday Fun, and his dad has not even called he was supposed to pick him up on Friday. I have no money for anything for him at all. No cake, ice cream, not even a birthday dinner or a present. I'm wishing for some money to my paypal to maybe get a cake mix, and stuff for tacos, they are his favorite. My paypal is aturner14572@gmail. I also have a wishlist. Thank You for reading this long wish!

Wish Info

  • Posted: Sep 23, 2012 7:44 am
    Granted: Sep 24, 2012
  • Member: angieandjason08
  • Member Since: Jul 9, 2008
  • Hero: 228 times
  • Wishes Granted: 80 times
  • City: Wayland
  • State: New York
  • Country: United States
  • Type: Need
  • Wish is for: Child
  • Category: Household Needs
  • Cause: Not Applicable
  • Views: 284
  • Comments: 10
  • Follows: 0

1 Accepted OffersLast offer 8 months ago

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  • 3cats2luv 8 months ago - Accepted!

    The jackets from your wish list are on the way. Hang in there and God bless you and your kids.

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angieandjason08 8 months ago

Thank You :)

Sqbear44 8 months ago

Believe me the man left her once he'll leave again. When this happens you can tell your mom "sorry, i helped you before and you burned me, i now have to take care of my kids"

Karma is not nice!

angieandjason08 8 months ago

his bad habits. I have children to support, and she knows this, only she doesn't care. Before I paid her rent, before he left, she "borrowed" and "borrowed" after he got fired for his drinking problem. I just don't feel that this is how a mother should treat her child, acts like it perfectly acceptable for me to take away from my household, my bills, and my kids for her/him. Her I don't mind so much, thats why I was moving there, to help her, but I refuse to help a man who treats me, my kids, and my mother like dirt. Its sickening.

angieandjason08 8 months ago

Hi brat:) Thank you. Yes, I am sure she knows her job raising me is done...but here is the thing. I didn't need her help, she needed mine. She was going to be evicted. Her house is bigger, so it made more sense for us to move there instead of her moving here where there isn't enough room. I'm very lucky that my landlord had not rented mine already, and that he let us stay. And she did pick a man over her child, and her grandchildren. And expects me to be decent to him. And is still asking for money for

bratwkidz 8 months ago

Keeping you and your kiddos in our thoughts and prayers :) Sometimes family isn't what we expect it to be. We never had anything growing up. No bikes, no birthdays, nothing like other kids had. Now my parents home is loaded with stuff. TV's, guns, fancy clothes, and they get dissapointed if they don't recieve birthday gifts! We never got one, still don't (Christmas either), but they expect their kids to get them things for birthdays and holidays. lol Like little spoiled kids. Sorry your mother has chosen a man over her child. You are an adult, so maybe she just feels her job raising you is done? Whatever your circumstances, I hope your needs are met. Many blessings

jpeterson1011450 8 months ago

Do you have a "metro" where you live? If you do, I have a gift card that I could mail to you to help with groceries. Let me know if this would work for you at julia.elinore.peterson@gmail.com

Stay strong!

mommie817 8 months ago

you are in my prayers

kimbaker 8 months ago

yw hun hugs

angieandjason08 8 months ago

Thank you very much. I am still in shock that my own mother would do this to me. I know I am rambling, but everything at once is really getting to me! I feel like I am never going to catch up. I can't even afford groceries at the moment. I keep telling myself that "this too shall pass" but it's hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel when I am drowning :(

kimbaker 8 months ago

you and y our family is in our prayers hun hope you get a hero